It is one thing to be a people pleasure and it is one thing to have someone else walk all over you. It becomes a problem when you are being walked all over only to smile and think that they must have a reason to keep walking.
Here is the real truth, these people have no reason to walk except for that they see it as an easy task. When they see it as an easy task, the problem exceeds more then when it first started. It started as you just being kind to you being walked all over and you don’t know how to stand up.
It’s not that you don’t know how to stand up but there is a fear that if you stand up someone else will be not as pleased. You always try to be a people pleasure.
It is one thing to be accepting of someone’s kindness and it is one thing for you to walk all over someone. You become the problem when you take advantage of someone. Not even taking advantage of someone’s kindness but just the idea of taking advantage of someone.
Here is the real truth, you have no reason to take advantage of someone. You see it as a game. A game where you might make someone else feel guilty, bad, or insecure of what their abilities are.
It’s not that you aren’t aware of what you are doing because somewhere deep down you know exactly what you are trying to achieve but you are really good at playing your own game.
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